Born June 26, 1940, Francis Charles “Frank” Acker III, the unofficial mayor of Hughes Street, died Oct. 21, 2026, at the age of 86.
Frank was a very special man. Wherever he went, he brought a mix of humor, kindness, optimism, intelligence and charm, leaving every room a little brighter than he found it.
Most days you could find Frank on the front porch of The Cherry House, sitting next to his beloved wife, Beth, and his faithful Coton de Tulear, Bella. From there he greeted his many friends, providing tidbits of historical information to Cape May visitors and often distributing American flags to children while organizing them into a parade as they ventured forward.
Frank loved being surrounded by people and his home was a center for gatherings, large and small. From Christmas Chili Parties to the annual Memorial Day Bash, everyone was always made to feel welcome.
For decades Frank and Beth opened The Cherry House to hundreds of visitors attending fundraising tours for the Mid-Atlantic Center for the Arts and Humanity (MAC), as well as the Kiwanis Club of Cape May.
Helping others brought Frank great joy, especially when they were less fortunate. He was a cherished member and co-president of the Kiwanis Club of Cape May, proudly leading the Monday flag-lowering ceremonies at The Cove.
Frank delivered Meals on Wheels, food for the Cape May Food Closet, assisted in establishing the local Aktion Club and served on the boards of both MAC and Cape May Cares. He didn’t just believe in community, he embodied it — one smile and good deed at a time.
Frank was born in Philadelphia. Upon graduation from North Catholic High School, he worked in the family business, Stenton Oil. While employed by the Abington School District in HVAC, Frank earned his associate degree from Montgomery County Community College. He also served his country as a member of the Army National Guard.
Frank was a wonderful father to Mike, Rod and Mindy. He coached Little League baseball in North Hills and was a role model to all of their schoolmates. His love for the Phillies, which he instilled in his sons, remains strong today. He was also known for his love of gardening, playing bocce on the beach with friends, golfing and exploring the world through travel.
Frank is survived by his wife of 39 years, Beth Acker; his children, Michael Acker, Rodney Acker (wife Collette) and Mindy Acker-Charters; six grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; sister Margie Joseph; numerous nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by parents; Francis C. Acker and Kathleen McHale Acker; and brother Bill Acker.
As Maya Angelou said, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Everyone who knew Frank will remember exactly how he made them feel.
Frank requested a brunch be held at the Kiwanis Club of Cape May, 1041 Beach Drive in Cape May, which is scheduled for 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 12. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Kiwanis Club of Cape May, Aktion Club of the Kiwanis Club of Cape May or MAC.
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