Holiday bus trip
benefits 4-H
CAPE MAY COURT HOUSE — Experience New York City in all of its holiday finery the easy way. The Cape May County 4-H Program Advisory Council is hosting the 5th annual 4-H Holiday Bus Trip on Saturday, Dec. 12.
The trip is open to the public. Tickets are $60. While in the city, travelers will be on their own to shop, see a show, visit a museum or just walk around and enjoy the holiday sights.
The bus will depart from Rutgers Cooperative Extension of Cape May County, 355 Courthouse-South Dennis Road, at 7 a.m. and leave New York City at 7 p.m. Reserve a seat at go.rutgers.edu/fzuw9fo6.
Pay using Venmo@Stephanie-Hoover-11, with cash or write a check payable to the CMC 4-H Program Advisory Council. Payment can be dropped off at the RCE of Cape May County Office or mailed to CMC 4-H, 4 Moore Road, DN 703, Cape May Court House, NJ 08210.
Call (609) 780-3205 or email [email protected] for additional information.
Financial fraud
prevention talk
CAPE MAY — The Cape May Police Department is hosting a Financial Fraud & Scams Prevention Seminar at 6 p.m. Oct. 21 at City Hall, 643 Washington St.
The seminar, presented by the FBI, will focus on helping residents recognize, avoid and report common financial scams.
The presentation will highlight online shopping and business-imposter scams, technical support scams, government-impersonation scams, romance scams and other financial fraud targeting older adults and others.
Attendees will learn practical steps to protect themselves, including recognizing warning signs, avoiding pressure to act immediately and independently verifying requests for money or personal information.
Bulk trash day
set for Oct. 21
WEST CAPE MAY — The borough has scheduled bulk trash pickup for Wednesday, Oct. 21, 2026.
Furniture, mattresses, boards, tied tree limbs and pieces of wood (not more than 5 feet long, not more than 50 pounds) will be collected. Tree stumps, cast iron, metal pipes, demolition/construction material, cars or car parts, TV sets, computers, white items (refrigerators, sinks, etc.) will not be picked up.
Items must be curbside by 7 a.m.
Valor Awards
event Oct. 22
WILDWOOD — The Citizens/Veterans Advisory Committee is scheduled to honor five people during its 9th annual Recognition Luncheon on Oct. 22 at Duffinetti’s Restaurant, 4600 Pacific Ave.
The honorees will receive CVAC Valor Awards for service that strengthens the organization’s mission and creates a brighter future for local veterans in need.
The luncheon will unite supporters, volunteers, businesses and community leaders to celebrate service and raise essential funds as requests for assistance continue to grow.
Since 2013, CVAC has helped more than 300 veterans and their families and distributed $275,000 in assistance.
Tickets are $50; a variety of sponsorship levels are available.
Community members and local business owners are encouraged to reserve their seats, become sponsors and help CVAC answer the next call for assistance.
Visit cvaccapemay.com, call (609) 425-8608 or email [email protected] for more information.
Grandparents group
meeting on Oct. 22
CAPE MAY COURT HOUSE — Rutgers Cooperative Extension Family and Community Health Sciences Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Support Group has scheduled its next meeting for 5 to 6:30 p.m. Oct. 22 at Rutgers Cooperative Extension of Cape May County, 355 Courthouse-South Dennis Road in Cape May Court House. The building is handicapped-accessible.
The October program will feature a talk on financial wellness by Troy Anthony Anderson, Ed.D., University of Maryland Extension.
New families are always welcome. The program is specifically designed for grandparents or relatives who have full-time responsibility for raising their grandchildren or other relatives.
Child care will be provided and a light supper will be served at 5 p.m., with the program following at 5:30 p.m.
There is no charge but advanced registration is required by Oct. 16. Email [email protected] or call (609) 465-5115, ext. 3609, for more information or to register.
Eat Healthy
on a Budget
OCEAN CITY — Rutgers Cooperative Extension of Cape May County Family and Community Health Sciences (FCHS) has scheduled the program Eat Healthy on a Budget for 6 p.m. Oct. 22 both virtually and in-person at the Ocean City Free Public Library, 1735 Simpson Ave.
Presenter Chris Zellers, Cape May County Family and Community Health Sciences assistant professor/agent, will discuss how to compare prices, the benefits of eating healthy to save money and how eating healthy now will save money later.
Register in advance at go.rutgers.edu/v0i4elek. Call (609) 399-2434, ext. 5222 or email [email protected] for more information.
Other Side
on the air
CAPE MAY — Tune in to Cape May Radio 101.5 FM at 1 p.m. Fridays as Cape May Star and Wave columnist Mark Allen welcomes guests who are making a difference in the community.
Upcoming guests (subject to change):
— Oct. 23: Lynn and Joe from the Cape May Coast Guard Auxiliary will detail the important work of Flotilla 82.
— Oct. 30: Angelo Rigazio was the last keeper of the Harbor of Refuge Lighthouse. After locking it for the last time, he took a job at Cape May Point’s iconic magnesite plant. He will share what it was like to work at the facility and what exactly it was that the plant did.
— Nov. 6: Robert Trivellini will discuss the Millville Army Airfield Museum.
The Other Side radio program is a live, in-studio two-hour session of talk, verse and song beginning at noon Fridays at WCFA 101.5 FM or capemayradio.org. It is underwritten by the Nature Center of Cape May, the Lobster House, Cape May Dental and the Cape May Star and Wave.
4-H Halloween
events Oct. 23-24
CAPE MAY COURT HOUSE — The public is welcome to join Cape May County 4-H for a Trunk or Treat and 4-H Open House from 3 to 5 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 24, at the Cape May County 4-H Fairgrounds, 355 Court House–South Dennis Road.
There will be many free activities, 4-H Club exhibits and treats.
A new addition this year is a haunted walk set for 5 to 9 p.m. Oct. 23-24. A $5 donation for children older than 5 and adults is collected before the walk led by 4-H Teen Ambassadors. Young children are encouraged to attend between 5 and 6 p.m. for a less scary experience.
Jersey Shore Pops
concert schedule
SOMERS POINT — Linda Gentille and the Jersey Shore Pops has two concerts on the agenda for the 2026 Fall Concert Season.
“Judy & Liza” is a tribute show set for 2 p.m. and 6 p.m. Oct. 24 at the Gateway Playhouse in Somers Point. The show will feature the music of both Judy Garland and her daughter Liza Minelli. Tickets are $40 and can be ordered at (609) 653-0553.
“A Bocelli Christmas” is a tribute to Andre Bocelli set for 3 p.m. Dec. 5 at Middle Township Performing Arts Center in Cape May Court House. The show will feature the music of Bocelli along with holiday favorites.
Tickets are $40 for adults, $35 for groups and children. Visit jerseyshorepops.org or call (609) 628-4544.
Concert benefits
holiday parade
WEST CAPE MAY — The Howard Street Ramble Crew is set to perform from 11 a.m.to 1:30 p.m. Oct. 25 at Rea’s Farm to benefit the 60th annual West Cape May Community Christmas Parade.
Rea’s Farm is located at 400 Stevens St.
Fresh off another successful summer season at the Chalfonte Hotel, the band will bring the barn to life with its trademark free-wheeling mix of roots, rock, folk, blues, Americana and soul. Cape May Winery and Obscura Brewery will donate a portion of their beverage sales to the parade. Food will be available for purchase from Lillian’s Kitchen.
Tickets are $40 per person and are available through Eventbrite. A service fee applies. Visit Eventbrite and search for Best Events in Cape May for tickets and additional information.
Event supports
Cape May Cares
WILDWOOD — A soup and sandwich fundraiser to benefit Cape May Cares and other charities is scheduled for Oct. 25 to Nov. 15 at Mulligan’s Shore Bar and Grill, 3210 W. Hildreth Ave. in Wildwood. cost is $17.
Tickets can be purchased by contacting any member of the Women’s community Club of Cape May or at Mulligan’s Shore Bar and Grill. Menu includes soup of the day, a sandwich choice and a non-alcoholic beverage. Eat-in only lunch or dinner. No Substitution Gratuity not included.
Free flu vaccine
clinic set Oct. 29
WEST CAPE MAY — West Cape May has scheduled a free flu vaccine clinic in conjunction with the Cape May County Department of Health for 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. Oct. 29 at the West Cape May Volunteer Fire Company, 732 Broadway in West Cape May.
The flu shots are available for everyone in the community ages 6 months and older. High dose will be administered only at senior center clinics and Cape May County Department of Health Clinics, as supplies last.
No appointments are needed for this clinic. Attendees must fill out a consent form, which can be picked up at the event or picked up from Borough Hall during open hours.
Visit cmchealth.net or call (609) 465-1187 for additional information.
Lunch & Learn:
Fats and Oils
CAPE MAY COURT HOUSE — Rutgers Cooperative Extension of Cape May County Family and Community Health Sciences Program has scheduled the virtual Lunch & Learn Program Understanding Fats and Oils for 12:30 to 1 p.m. Nov. 10.
Presenter Anneliese Kuemmerle, Program Associate II, will discuss the different types of dietary fats, their role in overall health and which fats to prioritize based on scientific evidence. Participants also will learn practical tips for choosing and using fats and oils in the kitchen.
The virtual Lunch & Learn Series provides viewers with health and wellness information during their lunch hour. Topics vary and allow participants a chance to grab a healthy half-hour tidbit of wellness to carry throughout the day.
Register in advance at go.rutgers.edu/c1qv94v3. Call (609) 465-5115, extension. 3609, or visit capemay.njaes.rutgers.edu/fchs for more information.
Soroptimists seek
award candidates
Soroptimist International of Cape May County is seeking applicants for its 2026-27 “Live Your Dream” Education and Training Awards for Women. This year there are three awards being offered; two for $2,000 and one for $2,500.
The awards are presented to Cape May County women who provide primary financial support to their dependents (children and family) and who are enrolled or accepted in a vocational/skills training or undergraduate degree program.
Recipients are able to use the awards to offset any costs associated with their efforts to attain higher education, such as books, child care and transportation.
Applications can be found at soroptimist.org or sicmc.com. Deadline for applications is Nov. 15. Email [email protected] for more information.
Support groups
meet at library
CAPE MAY COURT HOUSE — The Cape May County Library System hosts Al-Anon, Memory Café and Family Support Groups.
Al-Anon supports those whose lives have been affected by another person’s alcoholism. Memory Café is a place for those experiencing memory loss and their caregivers and family members. Family Support Group is an affiliate of the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) that provides support for adults with a loved one living with a mental health condition.
Al-Anon is held at 11 a.m. each Thursday and Saturday at 10 a.m. at the Lower Cape branch in Villas.
Memory Café is held at the Cape May Court House branch one Monday per month.
Family Support Group meets the fourth Thursday of each month at the Cape May Court House branch.
Registration is not required. Call (609) 463-6350, ext.700, or email [email protected] for more information.
Al-Anon meets
in Sea Isle City
SEA ISLE CITY — Steps to Serenity, an Alcoholics Anonymous support group, meets at 11 a.m. every Wednesday at the Sea Isle City branch of the Cape May County Library, 4800 Central Ave.
Library hosts
yoga classes
CAPE MAY COURT HOUSE — The Cape May County Library System hosts a variety of yoga classes perfect for finding some calm before heading into the hectic holiday season.
The offerings include Yoga, Intro to Sahaja Yoga Meditation, Gentle Yoga, Chair Yoga and Total Body Chair Yoga.
— Yoga is scheduled for 10 a.m. Tuesdays and Fridays at the Sea Isle City branch.
— Intro to Sahaja Yoga Meditation is set for 1:30 p.m. Thursdays at the Cape May branch.
— Gentle Yoga is scheduled for 5:30 p.m. Thursdays at the Upper Cape branch.
— Chair Yoga is set for 5:30 p.m. Mondays at the Wildwood Crest branch.
— Total Body Chair Yoga is held at 9:30 a.m. Tuesdays at the Cape May branch.
Registration is not required. Call (609) 463-6350, ext.700, or email [email protected] for more information.
Mental health
family meeting
The Mental Health Association in Atlantic County offers three online meetings each month, with both day and evening options, for individuals with a loved one who is affected by mental health and/or substance use disorders.
The meetings typically include an educational segment as well as support in the form of stress-reduction, self-care, resources, advocacy and mutual aid. Meetings are scheduled for 10 a.m. the second and fourth Thursday of each month and 7 p.m. the third Thursday.
Call (609) 652-3800, ext. 0301, or email [email protected] to receive a link to join. The meetings are offered by Intensive Family Support Services. Staff are available to provide one-on-one consultations.
Free screening
for depression
Online screening for depression and postpartum depression is available at mhaac.info/screening.
The confidential screening involves 10 questions related to topics such as sleep habits, appetite, concentration and level of energy. Resources and recommendations are offered at the end of the survey.
Anyone who wants to take the screening but needs assistance can call The Mental Health Association in Atlantic County at (609) 652-3800. Staff are available throughout the year by phone or by appointment. No cost, no insurance needed.
Angelic Health
seeks volunteers
Offer comfort and a listening ear to someone who has recently lost a loved one.
Angelic Health Hospice is looking for volunteers to visit or call bereaved family members, prepare mailings and participate in grief support activities and annual remembrance ceremonies. Training provided. Call (609) 515-6986 or email [email protected].
